Wednesday, July 20, 2011

My History, Part I

A traveling salesman sold my paternal great-grandfather a copy of “The Great Controversy” by Ellen G. White in Alberta, Canada years ago. My great-grandfather had emigrated from Norway and started a dairy farm in the land of the Canuks, and I believe he was a Lutheran at that time. “The Great Controversy” is a book describing the epic spiritual battle between Jesus Christ and Lucifer for the souls of mankind. That book caused him to convert to Seventh-day Adventism. I sometimes wonder what would have happened if my father’s family had stayed Lutheran, but I suppose that’s a moot point, as my grandmother would never have met my grandfather if they hadn’t both been Seventh-day Adventist. That’s the only story I know as to how or why any of my ancestors chose to be SDA, having only been raised to follow what I was taught.  

            My parents met at Pacific Union College, a Seventh-day Adventist institution. When I asked my mother why she married my dad, she said, “Well, we were both Seventh-day Adventist. And we were both vegetarians.” Erm. Mom. You got any other reasons? I dragged a few out of her, but it was interesting to me that their religion was such a major factor. It makes sense to me now that I’m married myself and see how important my husband and my matching worldviews are. My parents raised my brother and me according to some Seventh-day Adventist traditions. From sundown Friday night to sundown Saturday night we were not allowed to watch TV (excepting the rare religious or spiritual-themed movie), listen to secular music, go shopping, and go to secular events (like one neighbor’s birthday party that I notoriously snuck out of the house to attend when I was only six or so). My parents taught us to believe that we were the progeny of Adam and Eve, created by God some 6,000 years ago to live on a perfect planet until they rebelled against him and were booted from the Garden of Eden. Jesus Christ then came to die for mankind’s sins and all we needed to do was accept him into our hearts and we would be saved. Well, that and a few other things. I was taught because I was Seventh-day Adventist and knew the “truth” I would be more culpable for rejecting Christ than a heathen in a jungle would be for having never accepted him (because, of course, they would not have heard the “good news”).  

My parents were also big advocates of Ellen G. White, one of the early church founders and the church’s “prophetess.” Many people in the SDA church disagree on whether she was divinely inspired or not, but my parents taught me that she was inspired by God and given visions. They also repeatedly pointed out to me (and still do) that Ms. White always said that the Bible was the number one source, not her, and that if she contradicted the good book to disavow her. One of the things that I simply cannot get out of my head about Ms. White is the fact that she was hit in the head with a rock when she was an adolescent and was subsequently comatose for three weeks and unable thereafter to complete her schooling. Then, when she was seventeen, she had her first vision (http://www.whiteestate.org/about/egwbio.asp#early). Yes, she was hit in the head with a rock and began having visions. Does that strike anyone else as odd, no pun intended?




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Friday, July 15, 2011

Interview with my Mother

This wasn't my first interview, but it's the first I'm posting. If you're invested enough to listen to it, it's an hour long. Maybe you can wash the dishes or something while you listen?


This interview is with my mother, Janet Reese. She was very game to go along with the whole thing, even when the interview turned into more of a comparison/debate of my beliefs versus hers.


I'm going to type it out as soon as I get a chance, but I'm sure that will be a long process.


To listen to the interview, just click on the title of this blogpost, "Interview with my Mother."

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Belief-O-Matic



A fun quiz I found in my pursuit of this blog:


http://www.beliefnet.com/Entertainment/Quizzes/BeliefOMatic.aspx


My results:


http://www.selectsmart.com/PRO/beliefnet/new.html?q1=6&im_fact1=3&q2=6&im_fact2=1&q3=5&im_fact3=3&q4=7&im_fact4=2&q5=5&im_fact5=3&q6=3&im_fact6=3&q7_a4=4&q7_a5=5&im_fact7=2&q8=4&im_fact8=2&q9=3&im_fact9=1&q10=3&im_fact10=1&q11=3&im_fact11=1&q12_a8=8&im_fact12=2&q13=1&im_fact13=3&q14=2&im_fact14=3&q15=2&im_fact15=3&q16=2&im_fact16=3&q17=1&im_fact17=3&q18=1&im_fact18=3&q19=2&im_fact19=3&q20=2&im_fact20=1&doit=1

I'm not certain how I got 100% for Unitarian.

An Introduction

I’ve wanted to put my writing skills to better use for some time now, but couldn’t settle on a topic I found worthy. To organize my thoughts I took a look at the topics I generally bring up with people: sex (yes, I’m a pervert, just like you!) and religion. Why do I talk about these two things so often? I would say that my obsession with sex is biological, but my obsession with religion? I’m not so sure. One thing is certain though – my journey of belief has been one of the most important of my life. I simply can’t stop talking about it!

Maybe some people would like to put their religious or moral upbringing behind them, or not question why their beliefs are what they are. I, on the other hand, find the questions of moral upbringing and choice of beliefs to be my siren song.  Why do some people stick with the beliefs they were raised with? Because those beliefs are good? Because those beliefs are easy? Because they don’t want to come up with beliefs of “their own”?

This blog is intended as an exploration of these questions:

What beliefs were you raised with and how did this affect you?

Do you still believe in what you were taught morally/religiously, or have you chosen something different. Why?

I found that these questions will often begin a conversation of epic proportions. Having purchased an audio recorder, I've started to preserve the conversations I have with people. I may also have conversations through email, social networking, etc. On this blog I will share these conversations in either audio or written form.

What is my intent? My intent is to create open dialogue among people about belief. Yes, this blog will be biased towards Agnosticism, Atheism, and Secular Humanism. But, I am going to give the best reasons I possibly can for what I believe and why. I will also do my best to listen to beliefs that conflict with my own without being egotistical and dismissive. I ask others to do the same when they listen to me.

I fear this blog is a massive undertaking that will bring me more pain than joy, but I hope that my readers and contributors will understand that a better world is one where we let go of our egos and try not to control one another. I think many people can agree on that! So please, blog readers, be kind to one another as we interact on this blog.